Is It Okay To Be Unambitious in Retirement?

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I don’t normally start my blog posts with a definition of a word, but today I’m feeling anarchic – I’m going to make an exception. This whole post is about ambition, and although I’m sure you will all know what the word means, let’s just remind ourselves. This will help set the tone for how the rest of this post will look. Here we go then.

ambition – a desire and determination to achieve success.

There are other definitions, of course, but this one, I think, works well. A desire and determination to achieve success. When you think about it, striving for success is something society has expected from us right from our early years. You went to school – a goal (amongst others) was to get good grades. School completed, you then got yourself a job. Well done. Now go on and get yourself promoted, earn more money, and outdo your peers. We don’t want you to stop now! And you could argue that we were aiming for goals in our baby/toddler days. Come on, get yourself walking now! And those nappies – we need to get you on that toilet, doing it for yourself. Come on – where’s your ambition?!

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Why Lifelong Learning Can Keep You Thriving

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If you were anything like me, going to school was a chore. Something I had to do because my parents said so, and in fact, probably even more importantly, the law said so too. For me personally, I didn’t enjoy learning, didn’t thrive particularly, and, looking back, I feel I wasted, well, far too much time. I don’t say this negatively – it’s just how I was at the time – but I meandered through school doing average things and getting average grades.

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